Wednesday, February 10, 2010

The most enigmatic divine thing.

First sight ……. loves….

When someone meet with a person and fall in love, at first sight.
But do you ever thought that all first sight love happens  only when the person is like an angel, I mean most beautiful.

Nobody fall in love with an ugly or some less attractive person, in every story one thing is common ,the person is so attractive and the other one felt that he/she has to develop some feelings in the heart of the angel.

Hahaha!!! So do you have a love at first sight story??? If yes then your partner might be very attractive.

But I am not agree with the term love at first sight. I think it happens in school time only, when a very attractive new boy or girl came into the class and every eyes look at him/her, that time everybody(most of all)fall in love with the pretty face. That is only the attraction of someone’s personality.

I believe in love which can happen after knowing each-other, and when we met with the qualities which the person having and it attracts us, we are just fall in love with the person because she/he has the qualities which we want in our partner and its came to know after a long time we spent with the one.

One of my good friends gave me his opinions on it-“It’s a color of the life, it depends on the situations. May be it happens at first sight but I also don’t think so, because love happens when we felt that the person has those qualities which we are expecting from our special one. At first sight, it can not possible to know such qualities.”


I have a story related with the first sight love. When I was in school, that was my first day of high school, I met with a girl who was my classmate, she was the first one who talked with me and after some time became my best friend.
So the story began on the first day end, when she came to me and said “Do you know I am falling in love with somebody…”

I surprised…many questions came into my mind “What??? What are you talking about??? Are you mad??? When it happened???”

I was just shocked when she replied “Do you remember sir asked a funny question and everybody laughed when one boy answered???”

“Yes. I remember that…so???”

“So…when I turned back and saw him, he was looked like an angel with shy smiling face, that time I just felt that I am falling in love with him.”

“I can’t believe, what crap things you are talking, it can not happens at first sight. I think you have to stop these stupid things right now”

But she just smiled and many sparkles came into her dreamy eyes.

The time flied away with wings. But everyday I saw the sparking eyes, when she looked at him.

One day I asked her “When you are going to tell him that you are in love with him???”

Her reply shocked me again “Never…”

I asked with lots of questions in my eyes “Why??? If you love him like this madness, then why you are not go and let him know about it???”

She replied with a sad smile “Because…he love someone else” and some sparkles came out from her eyes, getting the face of tears.

The school time wasn't long. She never told him about her love.

After many years, one day I met her at the street of our town, and the first question came into my mind was, “Hey!!! What happened with your first love???”

“He got his first love…”

“What do you mean??? Please clear, I am curious about it…”

“He is married now…with the girl he loves a lot…”

“Did you ever acknowledged him about your love???”

“No…I haven’t…” She replied slowly.

“Why??? And what about your true love???”

“I still love him… that’s why I can’t marry with another boy…”

I was speechless, and she turned back and I know she had tears in her big and sparking eyes….



16 comments:

  1. tuje b school time mein kisi se pyar hi gaya tha kya,.,.,hmmmmm,.,wat say,.,

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  2. I m impresd.
    Love can be first side or both side.
    I hav a h'ble request to all lovers if u love someone so quickly tell her/him .

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  3. SORRY galti se galti ho gayi speliiiii ..XX h

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  4. hey is it true story ? i am crying yaar

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  5. well as i understand love i can say that it can happen always tht u can be in love at first sight because if its not like that thn why a infant loves mother n father evenafter he saw them first in this world and why we look amtyms at strangers even if we dont know them...??? i tell u y?? coz our brain does not beleave it but our heart feels it and the most thing if you are in love wid ne 1 thn do tell him/her it doesnt metters what he/she think abt u or will think. love is unconditional my dear it can not be make it always happn

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  6. @post... Aisa b kuch hota hai kya !!
    @ deepak...yaar ye padhne ke liye hai...jyada dimag lagayega to mara jaayega.. ;)

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  7. n owner... Plz off the word verification !
    (use comment settings)

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  8. it was a good story. but the gal takes the wrong mean of love, love means the thing/feeling which makes you happy. how she can be happy without his lover one and one biggest fact of ones life is "nobody's life stops with any kind of incident." and who stops those are called "emotional fools".
    @for me: sometime we can't/shouldn't decide/say something based on the experience of others.

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  10. Hi .. I don;t know about you but .. I got your blog link from your orkut profile. You are in friend list of my friend (Kartar Jat). I really love your story ... It is very true .. as I also had ..... some thing like this in school.

    Thanks for sharing ..with rest of the world.

    Regards,
    Surender Choudhary

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  11. लगता है किसी के खतरनाक प्यार में हो !!

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  12. कमाल है....तुम तो लिख भी लेती हो....वो भी इतना अच्छा...अतिसुंदर....शुभकामनाएं.

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  13. यही तो सोचता रहता हूँ .. प्यार जैसी नैसर्गिक और बुनियादी जरूरत को अभिव्यक्त करने की स्वतंत्रता भी यदि कोई समाज अपने व्यक्तियों को नहीं दे सकता तो उसे स्वयं को स्वतंत्र कहने, समझने और घोषित करने का, क्या अधिकार है ? क्या रक्खा है उसके तीज-त्योहारों, संस्कारों , संस्कृति, साहित्य और परम्परा में? ..जिस समाज में किसी स्त्री का किसी पुरुष का प्यार ही न फलित हो पाए,, वहाँ विवाह जैसे पाखंड को मान्यता किस आधार पर ? ..किस दृष्टि से उसे कहूँ की सभ्य समाज है ? हिंसा और युद्ध को इतनी इतनी गरिमा ? और प्यार की इतनी अवमानना ? कैसे कहूँ लोग जीवन को समझते हैं ? ईश्वर की उपासना करते हैं? या स्वतंत्र चेता हैं ?अपनी एक रचना आपके इस ब्लॉग पर शेयर करना चाहता हूँ
    "इश्क"
    मजाजी हो.. हकीकी हो
    इश्क तो इश्क है
    वे जो चिढते हैं इश्क से
    अगर देख पाते
    यह करिश्मा.. यह कायनात
    है किसी के इश्क का नजारा!
    पर उन्होंने तो बाँध रक्खी हैं
    आँखों पर पट्टियाँ
    हवा में भांजते फिरते हैं लाठियाँ!
    शायद ये उनका शौक हो या पेशा..
    हुआ करे मुझे क्या एतराज!
    वे खंदके खोदें!
    खाईयों को और और चौड़ा करें!
    झूठ और नफरत की आग में
    सडे लडें मरें
    मैं उन्हें रोकूँगा नहीं !

    बस तौहीने इश्क न करें !
    इस कुफ्र की कोई तौबा नहीं !

    (कुछ असंगत लगे तो सारी टिपण्णी को हटा दीजियेगा..और यह सब किसी बदहवासी में नहीं लिख रहा.. इस उम्र में बहुत-बहुत बड़ी कीमत चुकाने के बाद लिख रहा हूँ ..)

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  14. hmmm.....kya likhu ya kya nhi likhu kuch b smj me nhi aa rha h par ye ye jrur likhunga jo likh h usse likhti rhna good job yara

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