Wednesday, January 13, 2010


Love is like an enigma-II

"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."
- Woody Allen

Wawwww….What a definition of love… Can u understand it???

Well but I can’t…I can’t understand anything related with love…

I can’t understand the person who loves me a lot…when he say” I want to be with u always.” And just a thought comes in my mind…Why he is not feeling bored to be with me??? When many peoples do…

“Jaagu me sari-sari raat... teri yaad me…kisko sunau fariyaad… teri yaad me…janu na tere siva koi baat…teri yaad me…”-Kailash khair

When he says” I can’t sleep because of you…when I close my eyes… you come in my mind…& the night goes with your yaad…” And that time I just don’t have words…I only have a question…Why he can’t sleep??? When I can…

The things behind this are the enigmatic angles of love. I want to define them as I felt.

There are mainly three enigmatic angles.

1- The person you love a lot, don’t love you that much- because he/she cant feel your love in the way you can feel. He/she just surprised why you love her/him that much.

2- The person you love a lot ,don’t love you- most of people whom I talked about love, said that I love someone a lot but he/she don’t love me. Why he/she can’t feel that I really love him/her.

3- The last and very admirable angle is, the person you love a lot, loves you more then you. This is really seems like a miracle. Two persons love each other and want to spend their life in the heart of each other. They also were having misunderstandings, problems, ego, attitude…etc. But still they love each other a lot. When a lover fights, second forgive .They physically don’t want anything from his/her lover, but they just want to be with him/her every time.

So, I have problem with the third angle. I still can’t understand how people do love like this??? That much love comes from where??? I know he loves me a lot, then why I can’t understand his love. Why I m not feeling anything when I know that he loves me.

I think there must be some problem. There is one another angle of love remaining, that is you love the person, but you can’t show him/her. You know the way to express your love but you don’t want to do that, because you are afraid of something. You don’t want to indulge in those feelings. In this way, you just ignored the person. And this is obvious that the person feels that you don’t love him. When you know the side effects of love, you just want to beware of this.